有些事情，终究只藏在心底，从没告诉你。
就好像明明很喜欢的人，却总是装潇洒装冷漠。
就好像明明很讨厌的人，却总是装亲切装熟悉。
就好像明明心里很开心，却摆出一副平淡不在意的样子。
就好像明明心里很难过，却摆出一副 “我没事” 的样子。
这些人真的很奇怪吧？或许你从来都不知道为什么，或许你会觉得他们虚假，其实，那只是因为，真实的他们很珍贵，只留给最值得的人。
而最值得的人，从来就不会只是用眼睛去看他们做的事，用耳朵去听他们说的话，用嘴巴去评论他们应该怎么感受。
“你应该要感到开心才对，多少人想要这个机会都没有！”
“这没什么好难过的，你何必那么伤心呢？”
“为了这点小事，有什么好发脾气的？”
有没有觉得这些话都很熟悉，好像曾经在哪里听过，又好像曾经对谁说过？
但我们凭什么，在别人难过或愤怒的时候告诉他不应该有这种感受，好像在给他的感受判罪，好像除了开心以外，人类不应该有其他的情绪。
或许也因为这样，才总是在最爱的人面前，展现最丑陋的一面，而把最好的都献给了那些不懂得自己的陌生人。
为什么？你可能又想评论，这种人真的很糟糕。但，他们真的很糟糕吗？还是因为这社会，总是不断地在教会他们，你的难过和愤怒都不要给陌生人看见，因为这样很危险，很危险...？
我们说话变得小心翼翼，我们累了也不敢吭声，我们难过却面带微笑，我们愤怒却忍气吞声。最后，我们被别人赞赏，被别人喜欢。而我们，却也离自己好远，忘了自己到底是谁，忘了自己想成为什么样的人，只知道只要不被别人评价，怎样都好。
如果我们不再评价别人，也不再被人评价贴标签，我们是不是更有可能，在喜欢的人面前表现亲切，在讨厌的人面前表现冷漠，开心的时候可以大笑，伤心的时候就痛快的哭一场呢？
是否如果少了这些无谓的评价，我们才更能面对自己的情绪，我们才能活出真实自我，不用害怕别人怎么说呢？
我想或许吧，但这些，都是你从来都不知道的事。
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There are some stories remain untold, which we had always kept it within ourselves.
Just like acting cool and unconcerned in front of the person we like.
Just like acting so close and intimate in front of the person we dislike.
Just like we acted as if we have no feelings even we felt so happy inside.
Just like we always show them the "I'm okay" face when deep down, we are not okay.
These people are really weird. You might not know why, you might think they are fake, but you never know how precious are their true colors, and it's only for those who deserve.
And those who deserve them, will never just use their eyes to look at what they had done, their ears to listen to what they have said, and their lips to comment and judge how they should feel.
"You should feel happy, you know how many people did not even have the opportunity and yet you got it!"
"This totally has nothing to be sad for, why should you even feel so sad?"
"Why are you so angry over this tiny matter?"
Don't you think all the verses above are very familiar? Seems like you heard it from somewhere, or had once told somebody the same thing.
But who we are to judge them, and tell them they shouldn't feel sad or angry when they actually are feeling all those emotions deep inside.
This might be one of the reasons why we always show the ugliest side to our loved ones, and give the best to the strangers.
Why? Maybe you feel like they are so terrible, how could they? But, are they really terrible? Or maybe it's because of this harsh society, which taught them not to show their true colors to the strangers, because it's so damn dangerous...?
We tend to be very cautious when talking to others, we dare not say anything when we feel tired, we smiled when we are actually unhappy, and we did not even dare to say a single word when we feel angry. People likes us, for being "nice". In the end, you felt like you are so far away from yourself, you forgot who you are, who you want to be, and all you know is to be someone who will not be judged by anyone, that's all you wanted from this world.
What if we stop judging people, what if we finally aren't being judged, is it possible that, we can show our concern to our loved ones, and vice versa to those whom we disliked, we could laugh so hard when we feel happy, and cry out loud when we are sad?
Without all those stupid judgments, could we be able to face our own emotions better, to be authentic, and not be afraid of what others would say about us?
Yeah, perhaps we could, but all these things, are something you never knew, and will never know.
