偶尔会在夜深人静的时候，回想曾经发生的所有事情，遇见的人，不管他们现在是否还在身边。
不知道你们对此做法会有什么想法，但对我而言，这是一种让我学会珍惜当下的方式。当下很重要，但若不是过去的那些人事物，怎么会有现在的我们呢。
有时候看到类似 “有什么让你后悔或遗憾的事吗” 这种话题，我都会很认真地思考一番。或许在发生不愉快的事情的那个当下，曾经后悔过，恨自己为何那么冲动，或是恨自己为何不勇敢一点，但后来在回顾过去的时候，我知道所有发生的事，和没发生的事，都是最好的安排，没有什么好遗憾的。
就像，
有时不经意地对最爱的人说狠话，事后会后悔，但是隔一段时间却不知不觉的和好了，才发现原来最爱自己的人，就是愿意包容你，原谅你，不计前嫌的那个人。所以不要后悔，因为他让你看清了谁最值得你珍惜。
有时遇到了一个人，你以为他是你生命中的唯一，于是你爱上了他，最后你们却分开了。或许一开始你会后悔爱上他，可能过一阵子又再后悔为何那么轻易放手。但是你会发现在爱着他的时候你得到了不少，在离开了之后你学会了坚强。所以不要后悔，因为若不是他，你也不会是现在的你，而现在的你，我相信一定很美好，只要你也愿意相信自己很好。
或许我们来到这世上，就是一场不断学习的旅程，不断的吸取经验，不断的有新的领悟和体会。或许我们每个人都曾做过让自己后悔的事，但我想到最后，我们都会发现，这一切，终将成就我们，而不是击垮我们。
我不后悔认识你，爱过你，恨过你，甚至离开你。因为你，让我找到我自己。所以，真心的感谢你。
愿与所有人共勉之。
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Sometimes I think about everything happened in the past, everyone that I've met, regardless of whether they are still with me or not.
For me, it's my way of learning to appreciate and cherish the here and now. It's very important to live in the present, but I guess I won't be who I am today without the past.
There are times where I came across some articles like, "Is there anything that makes you regretful", I will spend some time to reflect on it. Maybe I have regretted at the moment when the incident happened, I hated myself for being impulsive, or for not being brave enough to do something I would like to do. But when I looked back, I know there's a reason for everything that had happened, and had not happened, and therefore, I have no regrets.
We might have hurt our loved ones with our words and actions, and later regret for doing it. But you reconcile with this person just a little while after you have hurt him/her. And you finally came to realize that they are those who love you the most, and they are willing to accept our flaws and forgive us for hurting them. So no regrets, because they helped us to understand who is the one who deserves to be appreciated.
You might have met someone and thought that they are your "one and only one", you fell in love with this person, but at the end, you break up with him/her like you thought you won't in the first place. You might regret for being in love with this person, and later, you might regret for breaking up with this person. But after all, you reflect on what you've learned when you are with him/her, and turned to be a stronger person when he/she is not with you anymore. So no regrets, if it wasn't him/her, you won't be who you are today, and I believe that, the present YOU, are beautiful, as long as you are willing to believe in yourself that you are, indeed, so beautiful.
Maybe we came to this world, to learn, to experience, to feel and grow in our own unique ways. Maybe we have regrets, but at the end, we may realize that all these happened, to make us a better person, but not to defeat us.
I have no regrets for knowing you, loved and hated you, and even left you. Because, it is you, who helped me to find myself. And therefore, I thank you, with all my heart.
Love,
SZ :)
