这是我一直坚信的，或许会被一些人认为是没主见，但我始终觉得，很多时候，为了谁对谁错而争吵不休，是件很消耗体力，又破坏感情的事。
我常常会给一个例子。一个人站在左边，而另一个人站在他的对面。其中一个人看到了 '6', 而另外一个则看到了 '9'。他们两个，都没有错，只是看事情的角度不一样而已。
只是人们常常认为，别人与我们的意见相左就代表别人是错的。
生活，从多面的角度去看待，或许就不会陷入纠结里，走不出来。不管是学业，事业，家庭，感情，还是任何事都好，当我们与别人意见不合的时候，不妨去了解他是从哪个角度看待此事，我想，或许我们就不会活得如此疲惫。
懂得从别人的角度去看待问题，我相信总比一意孤行的执着更好。
不想说那么多，纯粹想分享。最后呢，无论你看事情的角度是什么，我都希望你们永远幸福，开心！:)
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There's no definite right or wrong, it depends on the perspective that you look at certain things.
This is what I always believe and hold on to. For me, it's very tiring to argue with someone for what is right and wrong.
I always use this example when talking about this topic. There are two guys who stands opposite to each other, one of them sees number 6, and another 9. Both are right, it's just how they look at it.
But people always think that others are wrong when their opinion is different from our opinions.
Maybe we can try to look at things from different perspective, especially at times when people have different opinions. Maybe we can try to understand instead of fighting with each other to prove that we are right. We aren't always the right one.
Anyway, no matter what type of perspective you look at things, I wish you guys will always be happy!
Lots of love,
SZ
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