我一直都相信每个人都是独立的个体，都有自己的特点和对生活的看法，都是与众不同的。当想法不一致的时候，或许我们心里都会有些不解，但是如果我们学会去理解与尊重彼此的差异，我相信我们每个人都可以友好的相处。
比方说，
有些人喜欢看励志的书本，有些人喜欢读关于某个人的自传，有些则爱看漫画，甚至是报纸。那不爱读报纸的人可能会不理解，那些人怎么能一个下午呆在咖啡厅看那么久的报纸啊？！又或者喜欢看漫画的人也可能被人说，“都几岁了还看这种漫画，是时候看些比较有深度的书了！”
有些人觉得女生就应该温柔点，斯文点，也有些人可能会觉得温柔很作，性格比较直率一些会更惹人喜欢。
有些人觉得女生结婚后就留在家做家务顾孩子，但是也会有人觉得女生就该独立，不要为了顾家而放弃工作，而是两者兼顾。
有些人很喜欢旅行，认为多旅行可以开阔自己的视野，见识到这世界的独特之处，但有些人却很爱宅在家里，认为在家里呆着就是很舒服，就是一种享受。
有些人喜欢寻找挑战性高的工作，但还是会有人喜欢朝九晚五，简简单单的生活。
有些人喜欢安静，不太爱发表自己内心所思，可有些人则比较活泼，他们比较乐于表达自己的想法。
读到这里，你或许不知道我要传达的信息是什么，但我想说的是，每个人都是特别的，都和自己不一样，但是这是他们的特点，我们又有什么资格去评判他们的这些特点不好，而自己才是最好的呢？
如果大家学会互相尊重彼此的差异，甚至是去欣赏别人和自己不一样的地方，我们就不会这么轻易的下定论，认为别人不如自己，认为自己很高尚，很了不起。
只有当你学会去尊重彼此的差异，才能算是自我尊重的最高境界。
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I always believe that everyone has their own unique characteristics and views of life. At times when we have different opinions from others, we might not understand why, but if we try to learn to be understanding and respect the differences in each other, I believe that everyone can get along very well.
For example,
Some might love to read motivational books, some loves biography, some favors comic and others might prefer reading newspaper. Those who do not like to read newspaper might not understand, how can a person stay at the cafe to read newspapers for so long?! Or those who love to read comic might be judged by others, "How old already wor still read comic, it's time to read some books which are deeper!"
Some people think that girls should be very gentle and soft, but there are people who treat the girl's gentleness as if they are pretending to be gentle, and they think that girls with a straightforward type of personality will be more lovable.
Some think that married woman should stay at home to deal with house chores and take care of children, however, there are also people who think that woman should be independent and should never give up their career because of their family, instead, they should find a balance between their family and career.
Some people loves travelling a lot, they think that travelling is an opportunity to broaden up their mind and perspectives, and to see the uniqueness of this world. But there are also people who loves to stay at home, they think that it's very comfortable to do so, and it's their way of enjoying life.
Some loves to find jobs which are more challenging, but there are also people who loves those "Nine to five" job, they prefer to live a simple life.
There are people who are very quiet, they don't really like to express their thoughts, but there are also people who are more lively, they tend to express their own opinions and perspectives.
You might not know what message I am trying to convey to you! But by showing you so many examples, what I'm trying to express is that, everyone is special in their own ways and there are so many differences between one another, but this is their characteristics, so who are we to criticize that they are not good enough, and think that you are the best?
If we learn how to respect and admire the differences in each other, we will not be so quick to judge, we won't think that others are not as good as us, we won't see ourselves as a very noble, superior person!
Only when you learn to respect each other's differences, it can be regarded as the highest level of self-respect.
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